January 17, 2007
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He’s Just Not That Into You.
Have you read this book yet? Quite a witty book. I think I need to read it again, but ironically, I gave my copy to Janice as a present awhile back. I thought she needed some words of feminist power to conquer all the morons in her life. But it seems like I run into more morons than she does on a daily basis.
Actually, it seems like guys run away from me. Or that they do stupid things to distant themselves in the relationship. This goes for all my past relationships.
It seems like everyone is scared to sign on the dotted line. Soon enough, I’m just going to crumple this piece of paper, and nobody will get to sign. I’ll just go single for life. With my cats.
Xangans, what’s your way of knowing if the person is “not that into you”? What do you do then, after knowing?
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MC Like Mine.
“The only thing that keeps me up
When I’m feeling down
I don’t know about you
But I got to keep mines around…”
We all know Bow Wow is talking about his Shorty.
But we all know that I’m talking about my Master Card.
Nothing heals better than a few swipe of the card.
Soothing of the addiction…
Comments (14)
ouch.
awww
lol i tell them just like that.. I LIKE YOU! …and if i dont get the response I want…well then i know they are not into me! =(
you wont be single… lol cat lady hahaha
a few signs:
- if he doesn’t pay too much attention to me when we’re talking in person — if there’s no nervous laughter or nervous throat clearing once in awhile
- if he doesn’t try to get my msn or phone number after the first few times i talk to him in person
- if he doesn’t make too much of an effort to chat on msn — if you’re the one saying hi on msn first all the time — not a great sign, but not necessarily a bad one
- if he talks about other girls in front of you — a guy who actually likes you would tell you nothing about his crushes; it depends though
- if he doesn’t try to get to know you better in general
- i think it’s great that girls can be forward and get guys, but i still think it’s detrimental to the girls in the long run to ask a guy out first cuz the guy has already won the chase without having to hunt. this behaviour will just propagate if it turns into a relatinoship and i wouldn’t be surprised if the guy has this whole cocky “she likes me more than i like her” attitude throughout the whole relationship. i think girls who go after guys get guys that just end up not trying as hard cuz they think they have the girl and they don’t have to win her over. so…if a girl kinda makes allt he moves..i feel like she’s already lost the battle
….and that he just won’t be that into her. in my experience observing forward friends…they lose cuz the guy just kinda….doesn’t take her too seriously…
even if he’s a shy guy…and he appreciates the girl’s forwardness in asking him out…he would admit that the fun is in the chase..and a girl won rather than a girl freely given is the most rewarding
i’d like to think one wouldn’t pay ANY attention to you, if they’re “not that into you”. as for what to do after knowing, do the same unto them. sounds cynical and wrong, but given that this is me, well…you get the idea
here’s some advice. don’t listen to aquapink.
I’ll try for a little bit, because maybe they just don’t me that well. If they never seem to have time for me, then obviously I am not very high on their list. That’s okay, I’d rather spend my time with other fun people that care. I’m not going to make someone to like me, it’s their loss! =)
I think many people read me incorrectly because in general I’m nice. More and more I’m thinking that people aren’t used to having people be nice to them. Nice doesn’t mean I like you. Heck, you might even annoy me. But hells yeah, I can still keep feeding you doses of nice. **evil snicker**
Girls also do plenty of things to sabotage relationships or potential ones. They could have the best thing in front of them (I’m not talking about me, just referring to in general) and still mess it up. It goes both ways.
hey hun =)
we keep missing each other’s phone calls today! =( sorry i was in class both times you called so i couldn’t answer the phone! i’ll call you a little later, i hope you’re off class!
and lol, i’ll give you back that book so that you can read it again.
heck, i wish there was a book entitled “how to respond to flirting” or “how to flirt wittingly” or “how to flirt in general” lol! i need help =P but anyways i hope you’re doing alrite =)
btw, i couldn’t find any earmuffs yesterday at the mall cause i got there really late (*stupid streetcars are so slow after rush hour) and then i didn’t go to many stores but you’re rite! most don’t even carry them!!! like, they’ll sell scarves, mitts, gloves and such and no ear muffs! weird!
and yea! we *should go watch freedom writers =)
ok i think that’s all for now =)
as for knowing if they’re just not that into you,
if they don’t persue, then they’re not into you
it’s as easy as that.
i wrote that book.
word on kua.
I know if he’s not that into me if doesn’t take the time to call me or see me…if that is the case, I permanently erase his contact info and move on with my life….
hmm…i don’t think i’m certified to do your taxes yet
yeah ellen, don’t listen to me! listen to “slutburger” i think the nickname says it all
when you end up with your cats,
make sure to change your xanga name to “cat lady”
lol
hey i was randomly browsing and found this link that’s sorta relevant!
http://love.ivillage.com/lnsunderstandmen/whathewants/0,,q09q,00.html