December 13, 2008
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Bros Before Hoes.
Me: “So… do you agree with the saying ‘bros before hoes’?”
Him: “Naw. The wifey is always gonna be the wifey.”
After he said that, I couldn’t help but smile throughout the night.
Finally, somebody that understands.
Bros before hoes is probably the dumbest piece of mantra out there. If your ‘bro’ is really your ‘bro’, then he would understand that he doesn’t have a pussy and that he should sit his ass down because there is a difference between a ‘significant other’ and a friend. Just to clarify things, significant others will always come first. Hate to say it, but it’s true. Hence, the name: significant.
As a duty of a good friend, I have and always will understand if my best friends have to attend to their significant other. I will always be there for them, even if they’re not there for me at times. Unless I can provide sweet sweet love to my bestfriends male or female, then I shouldn’t be talking. There is a level of intimacy and love that I can’t provide as a friend as much as a significant other — unfortunately. So I understand when I am put second.
If the ‘bro’ happens to be a girl. Then the girl is just plain jealous. Also a bitch too for trying to fight for the equivalent importance of the “girlfriend” standing. If she were a real friend, she would step back and understand the dynamics of a relationship that girls can’t be too close to a guy that is attached and vice versa. Fail to obey this rule? Well, it’s just gonna ruin the friends’ relationship. Yeah, blame it on the girlfriend for being insecure because nothing was really happening, but if the guy is able to continuously choose friends over the girlfriend, then he wasn’t a good boyfriend to begin with.
Guys and stupid girls that believe in “bros before hoes” are losers.
Comments (8)
lol. i remember when my friends used to get on me about catering to my then gf; i’d turn around and ask them if they’d be willing to blow me if i was lonely and single.
@ThePrince -
Exactly. That is what I’M talking about.
first, and fore most, if a guy’s calling a girl a ‘hoe’, fuck him. (not literally, durh)
you and i, look at things in a very different perspective, m’dear.
Wow…I wish *ahem* could read this entry =P
bros should put bros before hoes. no selling out to cheap pu**y. bros should put wifeys or serious GF’s before bros. wifeys and real GFs should not be lumped in the hoes category.
when someone’s best friend is of the opposite sex, when one of them enters a relationship, the other needs to step back and respect it. this means less phone calls and a lot less meeting in person one-on-one. if they want to hang out, the sig other should always be invited too.
@djcaptainzowie -
I like your reasoning even better than my own. I think that’s what I was trying to explain, in which it came out as this whole angry rant. But you put it nicely in two succinct paragraphs.
@secret_agent_nelle - as they say in hip-hop, “ho is short for honey.”
But what if you, someone who knows your bro really well and the bro just so happens to be clouded with all the puppy love, can see that it’s not working out and that their “hoe” is a bitch/dick. as a bro, I would step in. I mean, I won’t get jealous, unless of course my bro just straight up ditches me all the time cuz their hoe is demanding and unreasonable. So I think in some circumstances, bros before hoes can still be in reason.