September 15, 2005
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You know what the worst feeling that you can ever endure in a friendship? Is when side 2 decides not to talk about the walls. The walls that has been invisibly built between you two, and yet it only smothers if not being taken care of. On the other hand, side 1 wants to know what is going on, why are there no communication? Why are there these walls to begin with? Afterall, it was a road to build on, and now it’s a winding road. Why? Yet side 2 remains silence and oblivious to everything.
And then side 1 cries. What else can she do? He decides not to talk. And the silence is like the death of him.
Comments (3)
Hope university’s going well for you =).
The lack of communication and emotional drama comes from misconstrued assumptions. Someone needs to be the bigger person and step out, suggest the talk…then put aside pettiness and talk. You think that in friendships it’s always understanding without saying anything…not always the case. People are just too sensitive sometimes, regardless of them being your best friends or not.
the need for communication is inherit, but when one side slows down it can make the other person begin to doubt the friendship since they have no idea what is happeneing and assuming it is going down will simply let it go.
It’s Existentialism on a Prom night – Straylight Run