April 24, 2006
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Sleeping Beauty?
My boyfriend sleeps (on an average) 13 hours a day. That makes me so frikken mad. WOULDN’T YOU BE? While i’m slaying at work, doing a 45 hours overtime week, and when I’m finally home to spend time with him via the internet, all I find is him on his sleeping marathon!
WE WERE SUPPOSE TO SPEND MY BIRTHDAY TOGETHER ON THE INTERNET JUST TALKING AND HE WOKE UP AT 5PM YESTERDAY! Meaning my anticipation of him not picking up his cell phone because he was on a airplane to come surprise me… was all just a lie to myself. He was sleeping the whoooole time.
DAVE, you need to get A FUCKING JOB. This is a cry TO THE WHOLE WIDE WORLD to hire my boyfriend!
A job, please anything. Something to wake him up.
Xangans, should I mother him? or leave my sleeping BEAST be?
Comments (8)
neither! he should get a job! although I should be one to talk though… sigh.
honestly, guys can “mother” themselves; too bad some of us are like leeches
1. Happy Birthday
2. Some guys are lazy sloths. You shouldn’t have to give an excuse to his laziness though but you should however give him an ultimatum…”get up off your ass, or I’m out the door”. No girl wants an unmotivated boyfriend.
Happy Birthday Nelle! =]
Boys are boys…they can do the stupidest things to annoy and hurt you, but don’t mother them…they get even more annoyed when you do. Just ask him to get a job…truthfully, you can’t really do much if he doesn’t want one. In that case, it’s all up to you and him to sort out.
let him sleep! i only say that because sleeping is my favorite past-time too hehe. although..i work 50-60 hours a week heh. me and your bf should trade tips lol. tell him that the best naps are on sunday afternoons w/ a baseball game in the background =P
He needs to get a JOB! I agree with that third comment up there! An ultimatum, not because you want to shake him up & make a ‘scene’, but because honestly, is that the attitude you’re looking for in someone you’re with?! He needs to shape up.. unless he’s going to school all day. Then he’s probably just tired!
I know you just want the best for him and him being lazy isn’t in his best interest. On the other hand, telling someone they need to change never goes over nicely. It just sounds that they’re insufficient.
Instead try to get him to see how this is effecting you. Any guy wouldn’t want to be the cause of their gf’s unhappiness. But always be friendly as you talk about it!!! and no Blame gaming!!!
If that does’t work I agree with rwyh_robynlee! totally feel free to go all diva on him!
heyyy Ellen! I enjoyed psych this year. it was mostly a little taste of everything and overall, a pretty good experience. =) I think you will like it very much. How was English? I didn’t take any English and I was wondering if I was missing out on anything other than possibly really awesome literature.
talk with you soon! i hope we can get together and do something this summer!