March 17, 2007
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Game of Love.
When two people play the game of love, they are just racing towards the “0″ margin. The rules goes like this: whoever likes the other person less, wins. And the person who ends up with the most affection for the other person, loses out. So question is, if we’re both playing the game, what makes me want to like you even more, if liking you unconditionally declares me as the loser? Why should I invest my love, only to be pushed away?
However, when two people are in love, they are racing to love each other even more. “I love you.” “No, I love you even more hun.” Yeah. Me too, shivers. BUT — no one wins, because no one loses. Total security.
Tell me, why play games? I hate games.
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P says that
“Women fall faster,
but men fall deeper“,
I digress.
Comments (9)
it’s so hard in the beginning cuz both parties aren’t letting their guards down yet.. not willing to show their vulnerable sides. miscommunication rules at the point.. although every individual is different, it does help to really understand the common things men want/do…
you are a genius.
i guess those who play games don’t have a sense of responsibility on this aspect yet.
yes the game is confusing… but games are fun… thats why ppl play them! haha kidding
i dunno, i guess the game keeps things interesting, gives you a sense of power and control when you’re winning.
because it keeps people interested. Whether you admit it or not, everyone enjoy the game.
big breakups (someone you actually cared about) are usually worse for men (contrary to popular belief). women are crushed more in the short term, but talk it out with everyone and anyone and then they are over it. guys keep it in, stay strong, while inside it eats away at them.
both give, both get. that’s what i like.
“woman fall faster but men fall deeper.”
i must say, i have to agree. i’ve been in love 3 times this past month, no wait…make that 4…. its gonna be a looooong year…
women fall faster but men fall deeper – i concur
i agree…no games!