April 25, 2007
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Xangans, would you date one incredible person and decide to stick with them for life (ie. marriage), and still question if the grass is greener on the other side? Is this a natural thought that occurs even if you have the greatest person in your arms? Or a sign of deterioration in the relationship? Does it mean that the person in your arms is not-so-perfect after all?
Comments (11)
i’d say it’s the satisfaction and being grateful for what’s there.
oops, i gotta check that e-mail.
I think it’s normal. Everyone will always wonder if the grass is greener on the other side.
the perfect gf would let me think whatever i want.
That’s tricky… b/c you wouldn’t have anyone to compare that person with… but at the same time, I’ve always thought that that idea was ideal.
maybe it’s curiosity.
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It’s a thought everyone has. Mmm…how are you Rubyyy? I haven’t seen you in agesss…actually since last year when I saw you at the Eaton Center!
i think there always reaches a point in relationship where you wonder if you can do better in certain aspects. hotter, more lively, taller, juicier, smarter, less moody, etc. that’s natural. i hope i’d be smart enough to realize that the great person in front of me (if they’re great) is something that i don’t want to lose. well, i also think that if you get someone too perfect too early, you’ll still question wonder, break up, and then risk losing that person. then i’d feel like a loser for losing the best person ever. live my life in regret, then shoot and kill myself, then write a book about that.
how was your birthday.
but is the grass really greener?
I think its natural at ur age.. ur still young so you want to explore your options ..
well… sometimes you just gotta give it a try, but, i think i’ve learned tons just by meeting a lot of people. even just that helps me to learn what would be good for me and what kind of person i’d be good for. i try to be a good listener. but… there’s always part of it where you can never tell unless you’re in it, because people just have hidden stuff like that. well i don’t. but you know what i mean.
oh… this sucks, but what if you think your person’s the best, but then they leave you? that sucks. also… i think there’s always some compromise. i think everyone should set high standards, but you & i have to be realistic, right? they might not be everything we imagined/wished they would be, but they’ll be more, because they’ll bring qualities that we never imagined or thought about to the relationship. =) smile. that’s the optimist in me.
Yeah, I would still have doubts.
Heck, religious people still doubt.
But that makes the relationship that much sweeter.
I remember that life is short and I enjoy as many moments as I can.