May 16, 2008
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We Learn.
I learned tonight that no matter what people say, I myself included, words are just words. Actions will always always speak louder. There are so many people whom are gifted with the flow of words and whom are able to concoct a self-image that may not parallel their act, but people will always hold on to words alot longer, because it is an immediate fix to the ego and ill-faith. But it takes a stronger person and timing wise, even longer to observe the actions of others in which patience, understanding, and unbiased judgment is needed and only executed by those with great character. Only then, will the right to judgment is validated.
Sometimes, we look to judge so fast, but the real monster is in ourselves. As the saying goes, we point our finger at others, and three other fingers are pointing right back at us.
If we just stop and look at the “games” we play and all the time and effort spent on the “cheat” and “tricks” that we used to play this game, there is only the result of a “loser” that comes out of this equation.
We think we’re ahead of the game, but we’re not. And why are we playing games in the first place? We just end up hurting the people that are closest to us.
Some people say they love you, but they really don’t.
Whereas, some people say they don’t love you, but in actuality, they really do.
And some people say that they will always be there for you, and they let you down.
Whereas, some people say they won’t be there, and they end up at your doorstep when you needed somebody the most.
Only time and actions will tell the truth. Never words.
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What is?
What is love?
I remember back in highschool, there was a “What is Love?” poster plastered on one of the corner walls in the Philosophy classroom. There were quotes and opinions from well-known writers and philosopher from all over history that each took part in contributing to this poster on their ideal of love. But there was this one quote that stuck out for me, and I still remember it till this day. It’s a simple quote, but a very powerful one in my opinion.
I love you not because I need you,
I need you, because I love you.
- annonymous
You kind of have to sit and think about it for a while.
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This stupid song is in my head.
Comments (8)
“Only time and actions will tell the truth. Never words.”
This has become one of my favorite quotes of all time. I felt strongly about this topic. But I could never find the right words to express it like you did.
Last year was really an eye opener for me to see the truth in people. I learned that there’s a lot of “bullshitting” in this world. I no longer trust what most people say anymore. A lot of empty promises were being given, but no fruits were being bearded, unfortunately.
Maybe that’s why I favor people who are the quiet ones. Lol~
I usually stay away from those who talks too much.
Aww I like this entry. Very very true. Actions *do define us. And the worst is when they say they’ll be there for you but then they aren’t when you need them the most. It’s the worst let-down anyone can experience.
Thankfully though, I have you as my best friend and you’ve never let me down so I’m pretty lucky eh? =D
@januaryicecream - Janice, you just don’t remember those times because your mind has conditioned you to have selective memory. Or shall I refer that to one of Freud’s defense mechanism called: “denial”.
But I remember all the times that I’ve let you down. But I learn from them!!! Did I ever!!
=) i really liked this entry
when someone asks me what is love…i have the saturday night skit playing in my head
some of my friends make empty promises, and it hurts like a fresh wound every time they lets me down. i like to forgive and forget though, with the hope that they’ll change. i am usually proven wrong.
Baby don’t hurt me…don’t hurt me…no more!
I have this stupid song stuck in my head- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZgM9_QJ6cZc&feature=related
ooooh, the remix..
i don’t say, just do. the one thing that gives me indigestion and gas are empty words. =)